In the excitement (and stress?) of a photography session, it can be tough to relax and think about your posture, especially if you are occupied with little kids or pets. If you're the lone subject of the session, it's also easy to over-think things as you lose yourself in the camera lens. Let's face it, being photographed can take us out of our comfort zone and turn what should be pretty easy (being yourself) into an out-of-body experience.
A good photographer will alleviate stress, keep things comfortable and fun, and give you small posing tips during the session. In my experience, there are three posing tips that I find myself giving over and over, session after session. If you want to look your best for any photo, follow these three tips.
1. Put your weight on your back foot
Don't stand flat-footed with both feet parallel and on an equal plane. Instead, put one foot slightly behind the other, angle your feet slightly out from each other, and lean on that back foot. How do you know if you're doing it right? Your back leg will be straight and your front leg will have a slight bend in it.
Young girls exaggerate this technique on social media. You've seen it: one leg is straight and the other pokes out at the knee, making a triangle. (One hand is usually on a hip, making another triangle.) These girls have the right idea, but the bent leg should be less posed, more natural. What I notice more often than not, though, is that they put the weight on the wrong foot! The leg closest to the camera is straight and the leg farther is bent. It should be the opposite!
Why should the farther leg be straight and the closer be bent? Whatever is closest to the camera is always biggest. When you shift your weight to your back leg, you also shift your hips and waist away from the camera, slimming your figure.
If you're looking for some variety, try crossing your legs like a walking runway model. You should still keep your weight on your back leg, but now you have another pose to play with. Crossing your legs also works well if you're leaning against something, like a wall or tree.
Are you sitting down? Angle yourself slightly and shift your weight to your back thigh. It's the same concept, just sitting instead.
2. Breathe in, straighten your back, and roll back your shoulders
Breathing in will help you relax. It'll also tighten skin around your neck and shoulders, which is always good. Breathing in also tends to help our posture.
When it comes to your back, pretend like there's a string on top of your head and pull it to the sky. Don't over-exaggerate this mov